What’s that? Hmmmm, let me see, why is it that many people think that relationships are hard and should be easy with the “right person?” Is that an effective way to approach a relationship? Thinking it is the other person and a bad match. Probably not. In fact many people keep plugging into that model for the rest of their lives and wonder why nothing changes with their relationships.
It takes intention and energy to be in a relationships that has workability and integrity. Ultimately you get to create the relationship you want. When you take 100% responsibility for creating the relationship, it can become fun, effortless, and exciting. The key is to start from the beginning and not when things start to get muddy and murky. This means doing your own work around your own issues even before you get into a relationship. Then you can look for the flags from the get go. Make a vision statement for yourself. Get clear on what you want and who you are. That’s creating the relationship of your dreams that’s already there waiting for you. You just have to step into it. And that happens with your way of being. Your way of being attracts the dream relationship that is already present. You become like a magnet when you are full of joy, excitement, compassion , Love, etc, etc., etc. This expansive state makes room for the relationship. That’s your creation, always has been, always will be. Then, and only then do you get to co-create your relationship. And that my friends, is where freedom and ease come into existence in Crealationships! F__k Yeah!

About Rusty Stewart

My name is Rusty Stewart, Ph.D. and I am the founder of Personal Growth Alternatives LLC, a holistic healing center and reiki school located in Abington, PA.
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