About Rusty Stewart

My name is Rusty Stewart, Ph.D. and I am the founder of Personal Growth Alternatives LLC, a holistic healing center and reiki school located in Abington, PA.
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Accountability in Relationships

So one of the things often missing in relationships is accountability. Many people don’t like to be held accountable. Other people have difficulty holding other people accountable. Either way it is not a good recipe for relationships. many have an unsaid agreement, “I won’t hold you accountable if you don’t hold me accountable.” Kinda like, […]

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Completing Oneself in Relationship?

Many people think that when they find the “right” person they will become whole and complete. Bzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, sorry, warning, warning, warning! This is the basis of many an unhappy partnerships because now your wholeness or happiness depends upon the other person. What if they leave you, or die, or you leave them, etc.? Never base […]

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Sex and Energy

Sex is very different from sexual energy. Sex is an act of having sex in all of it’s numerous creative combinations. Sex may involve affinity and love or it may not. Sexual energy on the other hand, is lifeforce energy that originates at out perineum and runs up the back of our spine influencing different […]

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Crealationships

What’s that? Hmmmm, let me see, why is it that many people think that relationships are hard and should be easy with the “right person?” Is that an effective way to approach a relationship? Thinking it is the other person and a bad match. Probably not. In fact many people keep plugging into that model […]

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The Magic of Humility

Let’s first distinguish between being humble (humility) being humiliated. “Humility is the quality or condition of being humble; modest opinion or estimate of one’s own importance, rank, etc. Being humble is: not proud or arrogant; modest: to be humble although successful. Being humiliated is to cause (a person) a painful loss of pride, self-respect, or […]

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Integrity, Cleaning Up The Past With Others

So once we start to address our lack of integrity with ourselves we can then clean up our messes with other people. Many of the lack of integrity issues are withholds. That is, the other person doesn’t even know most of the incidents where we have been out of integrity with them. And, when we […]

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Integrity, Part 2

So here’s the other piece with integrity. When we are frequently out of integrity with ourselves and others we training ourselves to not trust ourselves and others. How do you think that works in relationships? Huh? We don’t trust self, don’t trust the other, they don’t trust their self and they don’t trust us! Wow, […]

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Hell: Anchored To Our Recurring Past

Now that’s a bit of a strong statement. However, if you tied an anchor around your ankle and threw yourself in the ocean, you would sink to the bottom and drown. How many of you feel or think you’re drowning as reoccuring events happen over and over and over again? What is interesting is that […]

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Acceptance and Love? What’s the Difference?

One of the most empowering aspects of being 100% responsible is acceptance of what is and what isn’t. In that moment we are free to create anything we want because nothing is there to get in the way. And, we are the only one in the way of ourselves and Love. So in relationships we […]

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Team Finder for Relationship Transformation Worldwide

Hello, my name is Rusty Stewart, Ph.D., and I have been a relationship coach, seminar leader, educator and psychotherapist for the last 15 years. I earned my Doctorate in Psychoeducational Processes from Temple University in 2000. Currently I am enrolling team members who want to make a difference causing Relationship Transformation Worldwide. We are doing […]

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